I am an ADHD coach, writer and reflective thinker who works with smart, sensitive adults who feel out of step with conventional expectations. My clients are often neurodivergent professionals and creatives who appear competent from the outside while carrying a constant sense of being behind, too much or not enough. I specialise in the intersection of neurocomplexity, high sensitivity, trauma shaped patterns and questions of fairness, belonging and self trust.

The focus of my work lies in self relationship and autonomy rather than productivity hacks or executive functioning challenges. I treat ADHD less as a standalone set of issues and work in the intersection where it interacts with ‘relation to self’. I pay close attention to the shame, self criticism and people pleasing and other issues that can flourish in that intersection. Much of my work explores how early lessons about being reasonable, grateful and low maintenance quietly turn into adult patterns of self erasure, and what it looks like to practise everyday self equity without corrupting relationships.

Across coaching and writing I return to a set of interlocking themes, self relationship for ADHD and highly sensitive adults, autonomy and obligation, relational power and fearlessness, trauma, sensitivity and safety, and clean, values aligned relating. In conversation I move between emotional texture, underlying patterns and practical experiments, so listeners gain both recognition and concrete starting points. My aim is to help people move from shame, confusion and obligation towards cleaner choices, fairer relationships and a steadier sense of self.