
Mr. Jay
Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner & Intrapersonal Relationship Coach
- mrjayrelationshipcoach.com
- Washington DC-Baltimore Area, USA — EST
“Mr. Jay is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Intrapersonal Relationship Coach, a proud US military veteran, published author of two books, and a passionate advocate for healing from betrayal trauma. With a master’s in education and over two decades of life experience as a teacher, full-time dad, and mental health practitioner, he helps individuals and couples move from betrayal to breakthrough.”
Military
Veteran
M.Ed.
Master's in Education
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Betrayal Trauma Practitioner
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“Mr. Jay is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Intrapersonal Relationship Coach, a proud US military veteran, published author of two books, and a passionate advocate for healing from betrayal trauma. With a master’s in education and over two decades of life experience as a teacher, full-time dad, and mental health practitioner, he helps individuals and couples move from betrayal to breakthrough.”
Mr. Jay is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Intrapersonal Relationship Coach. He holds a master’s degree in education, is a certified special-education teacher, ministry credentialed, and an inspirational public speaker. He is the author of a children’s book, “I Am Loved Right Where I Am”, and a betrayal trauma healing journal, “From Tears To Transformation.” He is a proud veteran of the United States military, and even more proud adoptive parent.
Mr. Jay began his career in teaching as a substitute kindergarten teacher. He rose the ranks, ultimately teaching and getting certified in elementary, middle, and high school, specializing in teaching students with various special needs. After a decade of teaching, and another decade as a full-time stay-at-home dad, Mr. Jay was called into the mental health field and now works as a Betrayal Trauma Practitioner. To serve his clients, Mr. Jay helps and supports each individual and/or couple move through the stages from betrayal to breakthrough. Mr. Jay helps his clients recognize that, “with hard work, determination, and willingness, you can still have your happily EVEN after.”
During his downtime, Mr. Jay enjoys roller-skating, listening to music, officiating weddings, singing at local charities/events, public speaking, and watching an occasional guilty pleasure crime show. Mr. Jay is a family man and enjoys showing his children the beauty of life in New York. With all of his collective life experiences, Mr. Jay lives by the motto, “We are all beautifully broken, but even broken crayons can create beautiful masterpieces.”
- “With hard work, determination, and willingness, you can still have your happily EVEN after.”
What Is Betrayal Trauma & How Do You Define It?
What Is Betrayal Blindness?
How Do We Deal With The Emotional Triggers After Betrayal?
Give Us Some Tips On How To Heal From Betrayal?
Do You Have Any Particular Tips On Healing & Reconciliation?
Why is trusting your gut more important than trusting your mind or heart?
What is forgiveness?
- What betrayal trauma is and why it hits differently than other traumas
- How to recognize betrayal blindness and why it keeps people stuck
- Tools for managing emotional flashbacks and triggers after betrayal
- Practical steps toward healing from betrayal — a path from tears to transformation
- Guidance on reconciliation, forgiveness, and finding your happily EVEN after

I Am Loved Right Where I Am
A heartfelt children's book reminding young readers that they are loved exactly as they are — right where they are.

From Tears To Transformation
A guided healing journal walking readers through the stages of betrayal trauma recovery — from tears to transformation and breakthrough.
- Inspirational public speaker — motivating audiences on healing, resilience, and personal growth
- Ministry credentialed — speaks at faith-based organizations and community events
- Vocal performer at local charities, community gatherings, and fundraising events
- Licensed wedding officiant — has officiated weddings and ceremonial events
- Velvet's Edge I-Heart Podcast — featured guest
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website
mrjayrelationshipcoach.com
Location
Washington DC-Baltimore Area, USA — EST
Focus Areas
Healing · Relationships · Personal Growth · Coaching · Mental Health
Credentials
Certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner · Intrapersonal Relationship Coach · M.Ed. · Military Veteran · Ministry Credentialed